What makes an affair with a neighbour especially hard?

Proximity. You keep seeing the car, the front door and the people who watched it happen, which means the reminders are built into your street.

Not as a first response, and not while you are this raw. Our guide to healing after infidelity has a section on the reminders you cannot remove and how people make them smaller.

How do I get through the days I can't avoid them?

With a plan made in advance rather than in the moment. The Recovery Companion includes a short preparation step for encounters you know are coming.

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The Eighty Degree Wednesdays

A heating bill that kept spiking every Wednesday afternoon led me home early one freezing day. I went to fix a thermostat. I found something else entirely.

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The Thermostat Always Spiked at One on Wednesdays

I spend my days teaching strangers how to read their own homes. I never thought my house would be the one telling on my husband.

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The Network His Phone Already Knew

A neighbor invited us to her housewarming. My husband swore he barely knew her. Then I borrowed his phone to find a recipe and noticed one small glowing icon.

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What makes an affair with a neighbour especially hard?: Proximity. You keep seeing the car, the front door and the people who watched it happen, which means the reminders are built into your street.
Do I have to move?: Not as a first response, and not while you are this raw. Our guide to healing after infidelity has a section on the reminders you cannot remove and how people make them smaller.
How do I get through the days I can't avoid them?: With a plan made in advance rather than in the moment. The Recovery Companion includes a short preparation step for encounters you know are coming.

Read the guide: Healing after infidelity. Or start the 21-day Recovery Companion — a private daily plan for getting through this, free for three days.