Free · private reflection
How healthy does your relationship feel?
Use a calm set of questions to reflect on respect, trust, repair, independence, and safety — without a definitive verdict.
This is not a diagnosis and cannot assess your full situation. If there are threats, coercion, or violence, prioritize immediate safety and local support.
When we disagree, I generally feel…
How it works
1. Answer honestly
Choose the response that feels most like you lately, not the one you wish were true.
2. See your pattern
Your result is calculated locally and appears as soon as you finish.
3. Use it as a prompt
Keep the useful parts, discuss them with care, and leave the rest.
Questions people ask
Does a low result mean I must leave?
No. It highlights areas to take seriously. Only you can decide what happens next, and safety always comes first.
Can a healthy relationship still have conflict?
Yes. Health is shown by respect, repair, accountability, and the ability to be yourself — not by never disagreeing.
Is this professional advice?
No. It is a reflection tool. A qualified local professional can help with a situation that feels overwhelming or unsafe.
더 많은 무료 도구
내가 속이고 있는 걸까?
경고 표지판을 정직하고 개인적으로 읽으려면 파트너의 행동에 관한 질문에 답하십시오.
나의 애착 스타일은 무엇입니까?
당신이 안정되어 있는지, 불안해하는지, 회피하는지, 두려워하는지 알아보고, 그것이 당신의 관계에 어떤 의미인지 알아보세요.
머물러야 할까, 아니면 가야 할까?
당신의 관계가 실제로 어디에 있는지 평가하는 차분하고 체계적인 방법입니다.
연애 성향 프로필
네 가지 연애 성향을 살펴보고 INFJ 같은 16가지 스타일의 프로필을 받아 보세요.
연결 성향
어떤 관심과 배려가 나를 가장 연결되게 느끼게 하는지 알아보세요.
내 갈등 스타일은?
압박 상황에서 어떻게 반응하는 경향이 있는지, 어떻게 다정하게 회복할 수 있는지 이해해 보세요.
Keep reflecting at your own pace
A result is a starting point for a better conversation with yourself or someone you trust — not a label you have to live inside.
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