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Should I Stay or Go?
A calm, anonymous quiz to help you weigh where your relationship really stands — no judgment, no sign-up, just honest reflection.
When you're torn about a relationship, it's hard to see clearly. Answer honestly and get a structured read on whether the signs point toward staying, reflecting, or stepping back — plus questions worth sitting with. Nothing is saved.
When you picture the next year together, you feel…
How it works
1. Answer honestly
Quick questions about trust, respect, safety, and how you feel about the future.
2. Get a clear read
See where the signs lean — toward staying, reflecting, or moving on.
3. Reflect and decide
Take the questions and next steps to think it through, at your pace.
Frequently asked questions
Can a quiz decide whether I should break up?
No — only you can make that decision. This tool organizes your own answers into a clearer picture so you can reflect with less fog and less panic.
Is this anonymous?
Completely. The quiz runs in your browser, requires no sign-up, and saves none of your answers.
What if I get 'stay' but still feel unhappy?
Trust your feelings. The result reflects the signs you reported, not the full truth of your life. Persistent unhappiness is worth taking seriously, ideally with a therapist.
Is any relationship worth leaving immediately?
If you feel unsafe — emotionally or physically — your safety comes first. Reach out to a trusted person or a local support line right away.
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