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How healthy does your relationship feel?
Use a calm set of questions to reflect on respect, trust, repair, independence, and safety — without a definitive verdict.
This is not a diagnosis and cannot assess your full situation. If there are threats, coercion, or violence, prioritize immediate safety and local support.
When we disagree, I generally feel…
How it works
1. Answer honestly
Choose the response that feels most like you lately, not the one you wish were true.
2. See your pattern
Your result is calculated locally and appears as soon as you finish.
3. Use it as a prompt
Keep the useful parts, discuss them with care, and leave the rest.
Questions people ask
Does a low result mean I must leave?
No. It highlights areas to take seriously. Only you can decide what happens next, and safety always comes first.
Can a healthy relationship still have conflict?
Yes. Health is shown by respect, repair, accountability, and the ability to be yourself — not by never disagreeing.
Is this professional advice?
No. It is a reflection tool. A qualified local professional can help with a situation that feels overwhelming or unsafe.
Plus d'outils gratuits
Est-ce qu'on me trompe ?
Réponds à des questions sur le comportement de ton/ta partenaire pour une lecture honnête et privée des signaux.
Quel est mon style d'attachement ?
Découvre si tu penches vers l'attachement sécure, anxieux, évitant ou craintif — et ce que ça change dans tes relations.
Rester ou partir ?
Une façon posée et structurée de peser où en est vraiment ta relation.
Profil de personnalité relationnelle
Explorez vos quatre préférences relationnelles et recevez un profil en 16 styles, comme INFJ.
Préférences de connexion
Découvrez les formes d'attention et de soin qui vous font sentir le plus connecté·e.
Quel est mon style de conflit ?
Comprenez comment vous réagissez sous pression et comment réparer avec soin.
Keep reflecting at your own pace
A result is a starting point for a better conversation with yourself or someone you trust — not a label you have to live inside.
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