Free · private reflection
How healthy does your relationship feel?
Use a calm set of questions to reflect on respect, trust, repair, independence, and safety — without a definitive verdict.
This is not a diagnosis and cannot assess your full situation. If there are threats, coercion, or violence, prioritize immediate safety and local support.
When we disagree, I generally feel…
How it works
1. Answer honestly
Choose the response that feels most like you lately, not the one you wish were true.
2. See your pattern
Your result is calculated locally and appears as soon as you finish.
3. Use it as a prompt
Keep the useful parts, discuss them with care, and leave the rest.
Questions people ask
Does a low result mean I must leave?
No. It highlights areas to take seriously. Only you can decide what happens next, and safety always comes first.
Can a healthy relationship still have conflict?
Yes. Health is shown by respect, repair, accountability, and the ability to be yourself — not by never disagreeing.
Is this professional advice?
No. It is a reflection tool. A qualified local professional can help with a situation that feels overwhelming or unsafe.
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Word ik bedrogen?
Beantwoord vragen over het gedrag van je partner voor een eerlijke, privé blik op de signalen.
Wat is mijn hechtingsstijl?
Ontdek of je neigt naar veilig, angstig, vermijdend of angstig-vermijdend — en wat dat betekent voor je relaties.
Blijven of gaan?
Een rustige, gestructureerde manier om te wegen waar je relatie echt staat.
Relatiepersoonlijkheidsprofiel
Ontdek je vier relatievoorkeuren en ontvang een profiel van 16 stijlen, zoals INFJ.
Verbindingsvoorkeuren
Ontdek welke soorten zorg en aandacht je het meest verbonden doen voelen.
Wat is mijn conflictstijl?
Begrijp hoe je onder druk reageert en hoe je met zorg herstelt.
Keep reflecting at your own pace
A result is a starting point for a better conversation with yourself or someone you trust — not a label you have to live inside.
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